There is such a conversation:
The old monk asked the young monk: if you cross the previous step is dead, step back is dead, how do you do?
The little monk did not hesitate to say: I go to the next.
Yes, the road is not only backward, when you want to be in a nice hobble, from another angle, another way to live.
There is such a story:
It is also a very beautiful green leaves, in a gust of wind, was ruthlessly cut down, poor floating to the ground.......
Is it the end of life, into the mud? The leaves in the fall, struggling, thinking, struggling....... With the wind and the wind, she is trying to find a chance to continue life.
Finally, she stopped at the foot of a young girl, was picked up by the girl. The girl with appreciation, compassion, the leaves made a beautiful bookmark. The preservation of life context, from the text accompanying, and ink dependent, life is reborn.
Yes, there are many ways of life, when the disaster, you need to change a point of view, for a living law.
There is such a person:
The pedigree of world-class masters in literature, modernist literature, Kafka, grew withdrawn, quiet, timid, sentimental, like a person hiding in a corner in a daze. My father was not satisfied, then he completely lost confidence, he simply no longer, let him emerge of itself and perish of itself. In his father 's eyes, he is a coward, a hopeless, pathetic. But Kafka's in father again and again hurt, learn how the wind blows, learn to accept and patience, but also realize the life of pain and helplessness. Even more shocking is that a chance, he embarked on the road of literary creation, he put the sensitivity of life, cowardly character, morose temperament, haunting loneliness and crisis, cannot overcome the absurdity and fear, into novel form only beautiful style, become the era of capitalist society portrayal of the spirit. His "deformed mind", "decision", "Castle" and other works of the world, and enduring, become Austria's most famous writers. The success of Kafka told people that some things can not be changed, for example, character, appearance, height and other, for those born with defects, there is no need to change it, not for this annoying and arrogant. Each person has their own advantages, but also have their own shortcomings, and complained that God is not good for their own, as to find a suitable land for their growth.
Yes, each have their own wonderful life, when you want to disadvantage has not changed, change a point of view, for a living law.
There are countless examples of reality:
Seems to be the weak life, experiencing the hardships of life, college entrance examination, unsuccessful, employment is rejected, everywhere be rebuffed a series of failures, and finally another way, into the lives of the strong, get the life of success, life in full bloom beautiful.
Yes, the road of life, when the road ahead to walk, you have to know how to turn, change a point of view, for a living law.
Time flies, "life is not perfect is the norm, and complete, it is very normal", in the face of setbacks, just change an angle to think, to observe, you will find, life unfolds, and not usually feel so Yin Li all over the sky, then there's no hope; as far as the eye could cross the obstacle, the heart can down now, broaden our horizons, change idea, change the way of life, miserable life will be twists and turns, again painful life is enchanting. Your life, too, will be wonderful!
初二:祝彦培